tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5059735006419839986.post1304373952861191881..comments2023-10-23T09:35:11.231-05:00Comments on lilbit of my world: losses at 90lilly rierahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14225033735388865046noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5059735006419839986.post-52324667730968686372011-07-01T20:02:34.347-05:002011-07-01T20:02:34.347-05:00believe me, no matter where she was, there would b...believe me, no matter where she was, there would be things at 90 that saddens her.... one of those things that you have to accept when you live to be so long. Today, Nee and I went to visit, and she was at bingo, we went up there to say hello and she brushes us off!!!! Momma is fine, just will have days that she will be sad as all of us do. Today, no memory of being sad yesterday, so as I have said before, dementia is not always a bad thing!lilly rierahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14225033735388865046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5059735006419839986.post-38192463976906720742011-07-01T11:39:07.868-05:002011-07-01T11:39:07.868-05:00I go to your blog if only to read but this one get...I go to your blog if only to read but this one gets to me! It saddends me to know that Mom is sad. Although I call her at least once a week I'm not sure that that is good for me or her. Makes me think that she is sad when I call and can't go over like I use to. I know that, as a family, Mom will be in the Manor for as long as she is on this earth but at this point in my life I can't go as often as I use to. And now I think that this should not bother me that I am doing the best I can at this point in my life. I think of other "CLOSE FAMILY FRIENDS" that will have big decisions to make in the days to come and think we are quite lucky. Mom is healthy except for her dementia which sometimes this is a blessing to her and to us. Decesions and reality will have to take it's place for "CLOSE FAMILY FRIENDS". I pray for my Mom and these friends that God will protect and do the best things for our families. I LOVE YOU, MOM, AND THANKS!grannyron7https://www.blogger.com/profile/14672314510199937888noreply@blogger.com