I was new to school nursing but not to nursing.
I knew a sick child when I saw one.
So on my first year as a school nurse I notice
this dark haired, pale student in line.
I try to make note that I need to find out who
this child is and do an assessment on him.
However, anyone who works knows that
sometimes you get busy with the daily grind of the job
and your mind puts these things aside.
When you are working for God though, he doesn't
let you forget that easy.
About two weeks later the assistant principal
walks this same child to my office.
At first I am confused because he is with the asst. principal,
is he in trouble? He is crying and he appears scared.
One thing is for sure he is very, very, pale.
The a. principal shares with me that while on the third floor
he was asked to leave class which was unusual for this student.
He is never in trouble, very quiet.
On this day not only is he sent out of class but as he hits the
first floor he runs into the A. principal and begins to cry.
He says he is in trouble but he also doesn't feel good.
She takes action and instead of focusing on how much
trouble he may be in she escorts him to me.
I know with one look this child, a 9 year old, is critically ill.
His heart rate is in the mid-100's when 80 is normal.
He is pale, the color of a sheet and exhausted, quiet and crying.
I call his mother, she doesn't drive, there are problems on the home front
and she wants to believe maybe that is why he is so upset.
No, I insist she must find a ride and I must talk to her.
She says yes she will find a ride.
I am worried, there are reports that Daddy may not allow
Mom to take him to the doctor, he is controlling.
I don't know how I am going to get her to believe me that
this child needs medical help now but I pray that God will give
me the words. Mom makes it there, she also is pale and shy
but she takes one look at her baby sitting in my office,
takes him in her arms and says, "My baby"
I am comforted by this. No man can overcome the love
this mother has for her child.
She still wants to make excuses for his condition,
"I gave him cough syrup this morning, that is what
is making his heart beat fast"
"He doesn't play outside, he is always this color"
Somehow, I am given the words to get this Mother to promise
that she will leave this school and go straight to the emergency room
not waiting for her husband's approval.
I go to the office and share with the secretary how concerned I am
I don't remember exactly what I told her.
The next day there is a call from the students mother.
I am called to the office because at that time I did not
have a phone line and she is insistent that she speak with me.
I take the call and she is crying, she is thanking me.
I ask, "how is he?"
She says the words"
"He has leukemia, I brought him to the hospital,
they transferred him by ambulance to Children's
he is in ICU having blood transfusions"
I hang up and I become weak to my knees right there in
front of the secretary.
I tell her, he has leukemia and I begin to cry.
She says to me:
"Lilly I don't know why you are surprised, you stood here
yesterday at my desk and told me you knew he had leukemia"
I had no recollection of saying those words to her.
I am happy to say that 7 years later,
this child is fine and in remission.
happy AHA day!
Lisa Ortego, I love your aha monents. I have had some myself working with the church and school. I do believe they are always there. We just have to trust in the Lord to guide us.
ReplyDeleteI wake up every morning and go to work. And each and every morning since school started (which happens to be 3 at this point) the traffic is backed up like KA-RAZEE because for some strange reason, no one rides the bus anymore. They all pile into individual cars and get dropped off at school all at the same time each day. Now in my town, it doesn't take long for traffic to get backed up almost a mile and a 5 minutes turns into 20 because the man with the bright vest is pretty clueless on how to keep the flow going. I guess you're wondering when my "A-HA" moment arrived? Well it arrived when I got even with Louviere lane and I said, "A-HA -- LA 3235" .... So now, I get on 3235 and don't even bother with the silliness of traffic. Sometimes I amaze myself.
ReplyDeleteand sometimes you are just a little slow...
ReplyDeleteMost of the time. Passed Tom's Texaco this morning and he was laughing away with all the men outside. That is why he is slow to get to work! Gotcha Buddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI believe that whether it be school nursing, private duty nursing, hospital nursing, any kind of nursing - if you are in this profession for the right reason you are doing the Lord's work! I know I learned from the best nurse - right Aunt Lil?
ReplyDeleteLove you!
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