Monday, March 14, 2016
Bean turns 5!
Yesterday was not only our sweet Bean's birthday party
but her actual birthday.
It is so hard to believe she is 5.
I love all my grand girls.... like a lot.
Yet, as all grandparents know, there is something
different about the first.
Bean was born at the best time for me.
I was struggling to get over a necessary back surgery,
trying to deal with the end of a nursing career of 30 years,
a marriage that began to show some "wear and tear"
I probably put too much of myself into her
but we all did. I honestly don't know how I would
be had this little girl not come to us when she did.
She was my light at the end of a long tunnel
and although I now am so happy, content, standing
on my own two feet, I am not sure it would have turned
the way it is without having Bean at the time.
Her parents have a little spitfire on their hands,
she knows and loves fashion and is forever arguing
her clothing point with her Mommy and Daddy.
She has so much personality that sometimes
she has to be reminded that she is just 5, not 20.
Yet, she is the most loving big sister ever.
She may be talking to you not paying attention
to what her hands are doing and she will be patting the
head of one of her little sisters, holding their hand
to keep them away from things,
She is forever kissing on those sisters and if it were
up to her, she would have many many brothers and sisters.
She is smart, loves her school and especially her teacher,
Ms. Delania, when she showed up at her party,
Beans face lit up! I don't think she honestly believed
her most favorit teacher would actually come to her party.
It was a great day, so many there who just love our
Bean as much as we do. At one point, I looked around
the room and was overwhelmed with just how many people
had come out for our girls bday.
I would like to say,
Koodo's to her Mommy and Daddy
who have learned the best way to handle this little girl
they love so much. They are not ones to brag so I will.
These little girls are the luckiest to call these two
Mommy and Daddy. Inside, maybe things stress them out
but when it comes to their little ones, their goals are
to make these little girls their priority, giving them
the happiest childhood but also how to discipline them
each in the way they understand what they did.
It is hard as a Mumsie to see the girls get timed out
but it is necessary with these girls.
They are always fair and once the break is over
they both will get down to eye level with their girls,
ask if they know why they were given a time out.
Once Bean repeats the reason they hug her,
tell her they love her and they let it go!
Wow, how did they learn how to do that??Lol
Now to My Jilly Bean...
I adore you, you came to me at a time when I did not
know where my life was going.
I could be so sad, having a rough day and somehow,
there you would be cheering me up not even realizing
what you wee doing. You love me and you let me
know you do. We share lots of memories and we
continue to make more.
I look forward to many more "adventures" with you.
My life would not be complete without you in it.
Thank you for always reminding us that only love
is what is important.
You are one special little girl, and as your Mommy
commented, we are all thankful that God gave
you to us to be ours.
I thought my life was good, then you came
and showed me that my life was great, no matter
how many heart aches I may have, you and your
sisters wash it away as soon as I see y'all sweet faces.
Happy Birthday my sweet first Grand Girl,
this Mumsie loves you dearly!