Well I have had a change of thoughts.
I have met many fun and interesting men but
I am just not in a hurry to have a stable long term relationship.
I find myself after a few dates with one certain one,
I am backing out, Just not wanting a long term relationship
as some of the men I have dated. We may start out good,
seeming to have some in common but after just a few
dates I realize we are just too different. I like orderliness,
I like neatness, I like my time with my grand girls and my family.
Many either don't have this or its not important.
I just can't seem to promise myself to anyone because
I am so set in my ways and love my cottage, content
with me, loving that if I decide a day to myself doing not much,
I can, If I wake up and I just am not feeling up to par, its okay,
having no one to worry about but me.
watching movies he loves that I have never seen,
I love the way he understands I don't know much history
but getting older finds me wanting to know more.
He is a good teacher. We are friends, friends of the opposite sex,
not needing anything from the other but fun.
I guess what I mean is neither of us needs anything from
the other so we really just enjoy each other and neither
of us demand any time from each other.
Very adult, understanding we have lives outside of our friendship.